Monday, April 14, 2008

planning Day6

... I'm back!!!!!! well, at least for tomorrow ... there is a girl, well, and I really really like her and I like her more every morning - so I don't know how that's going to affect my "game".

tomorrow I'm going to have a non-romantic date with the very same lady from Day2 (she's still in her 3yrs-LTR). So I'm not going for a KC but for an entertaining evening - whatever that means. her personality is somewhat different from mine, so I thought to myself a little warm-up in advance will be of good use for rapport-building with her. last time it worked not too bad and now that I haven't been in any high-voltage communication-state for a long time I might depend on it.

so what will I do ... complimenting women ... really I have no idea why, but high-speed-generation of honest and individual compliments is none of my stregths. and that's a damn shame! because after having read the Day6-challenge I immediately realized the importance of this skill ... on the other hand I originally drew my date's attention on me by giving her a compliment about her scarf during a tutorial in front of more than twenty students - yeah ... that's irony.
... there is hope!

tomorrow I will pay an honest compliment to at least eight attractive women!
- one woman before work
- one woman during work
- five women anywhere
- my date

I will compliment bearing in my mind:
- I'm not expecting anything back ... not even a "thank you" - NOTHING!
- I won't sustain the approach ...
- I won't run away after giving the compliment / I'll give her a chance to react
- if she reinitiates communications I'll go for a name/#-close (business as usual)
- when I give the compliment I'll look straight into her eyes (color?)
- and I won't forget about fucking kinoing - kino kino kino !!!

tomorrow I'll write down my experience ... ;-)

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